Healing is multi-layered and multi-faceted. I believe there’s more than one way to heal. An on-going process with no final destination. The rewards are huge if you take time and make a commitment to heal and grow.

A few years ago my life looked perfect – I had everything I wanted. Everything I thought would make me happy. A house, husband, children, I even had a big fluffy dog. From the outside it looked great, life couldn't get any better, right?! Wrong, on the inside I was dying. I was thinking is this it? All this and what? What is it for? Where am I in all of this? I was lost, I felt trapped and it felt like I was screaming into a void and no sound was coming out.

My life today looks very different – is it perfect? Hell no… it’s imperfectly perfect though. I got diagnosed with ADHD, I came out as pansexual, I’m divorced and I’m now in a wonderful relationship with a woman. I’m training to be a psychotherapist - a life-long dream and I have a much better relationship with my children. For the first time I feel in control of my life. Finally, I’m in my forties and I’m driving the bus, the bus isn’t driving me, crashing into various objects along the way. I’m the creator of my dreams, and it feels bloody incredible.

I’ve completed 2 counselling courses level 2 and 3 and I’m taking on further training to become a Transactional Analysis psychotherapist. I love people. I have an open-mind and my communication style is direct and clear.

Work With Me

You can work with me in numerous ways. Through weekly emails and access to a facebook group, or you can upgrade and also get monthly 1 to 1 check ins with me via zoom or in-person. Or you can get all of this plus weekly coaching sessions. The choice is yours.

Healing Myself Bronze member
£4.99
Every month
£49.00
Every year

Community members get one email or zoom a week. Access to a private community facebook page and a 30 min 1 to 1 welcome call with Alexis as part of becoming a member.


✓ 50% off workshops
Healing Myself Gold Member
£49.00
Every month
£490.00
Every year

One email/ zoom a week. A 30 min welcome chat with Alexis. And 2 x 50 min check in per month via zoom for on-going support to reflect on what you need.


✓ A signed copy of my book - Feeling Myself
✓ All workshops free
Healing Myself Silver Member
£24.99
Every month
£240.00
Every year

One email/ zoom a week. A 30 min chat with Alexis via zoom. A monthly 50 min check in via zoom to reflect and assess any support needed.

Healing Myself Platinum member
£99.00
Every month
£990.00
Every year

One email/ group zoom a week. A sign up chat with Alexis where we'll get to know one another and come up with a plan together. Weekly 50min coaching sessions via zoom for on-going support/ coaching.


✓ PLUS, a signed copy of my book - Feeling Myself
✓ A mystery welcome gift pack
✓ All workshops free